The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage (The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Series)
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The #1 International Bestseller and Award Winner!
“REFRESHING… [Dilorenzo] doesn’t shy away from controversy… In the inviting tone of a friend she urges readers toward being ‘intentional’ in intimacy and never taking it for granted. A compact, EASILY READABLE compilation of relationship advice with bursts of playful style.” — Booklife by Publishers Weekly
“NO MATTER YOUR SEASON OF MARRIAGE… Alisa DiLorenzo has great suggestions for approaching your partner when you need to strengthen a particular intimacy. The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® is a GREAT SELECTION for readers who are ready to fortify their bond with their partner in a direct and loving approach.” — Readers’ Favorite
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Can you strengthen your bond, grow together, and enjoy deeper levels of love and intimacy that rival your newlywed days? And can you do any or all of that without having to digest mountains of self-help books, or pouring your hearts out to a total stranger in endless counseling sessions?
Yes, it is possible—and as you read, you’ll see how easy it can be!
Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are passionate about helping couples create their own extraordinary marriage. They do this through books, coaching, and through their #1 marriage podcast, “The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show” where they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world.
Their newest book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage, is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve. They have learned some hard knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and they did it together. Let them do the same for you!
Inside, you’ll discover:
The six intimacies (pillars), and how to use them.That, if the pillars are solid and straight, they will keep your marriage thriving and ensure everything goes along smoothly, and how to do this.How, if the pillars become damaged, your marriage can start to collapse.The author’s real-life story, experience, and relationship struggles.And more.
Even the best marriages can have cracks in their relationships. The difference is that extraordinary couples take action when they see those cracks happening.
Get The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® today to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire and deserve.
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🥇2024 Readers’ Favorite Gold Medal
⭐2023 Christian Indie Awards
From the Publisher
Publisher : ONE Extraordinary Marriage
Publication date : October 25, 2021
Language : English
Print length : 198 pages
ISBN-10 : 0578991454
ISBN-13 : 978-0578991450
Item Weight : 7.7 ounces
Dimensions : 5 x 0.5 x 8 inches
Part of series : The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Series
Best Sellers Rank: #63,677 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #60 in Psychology & Counseling Books on Sexuality #96 in Sex & Sexuality #175 in Christian Marriage (Books)
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Customers find this book to be a must-read for all marriages, providing lots of relationship and marriage tips. Moreover, the book is easy to read and understand, with one customer noting it’s packed with practical tools for immediate help. Additionally, they appreciate its helpful advice and find it a great resource.
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gd –
Helped a lot
I was really struggling with anxiety in our marriage. I knew something was killing me inside but just couldn’t figure out what. This book gave a lot of clarity on why I was feeling so many things. I have have been making small steps to be more present. It hasn’t been long but I can see the small changes in how we interact.
sandra –
Best book Iâve ever read on making marriage last
This book was exactly what I was looking for. Coming from an abusive home, my husband and I always thought that it was me and my past issues coming between our intimacy in our marriage but after reading this book I realized that my past had nothing to do with the problems in our marriage. It was how I was treating him and how he was treating me. We both werenât doing much to create intimacy in our marriage. I felt like I was distant because of my past, but it was because we didnât have the knowledge and skills about what real intimacy is. This book covers everything and a great read. I found myself many times going âyes! Thatâs our problem â âwe donât do those things eitherâ Hopefully my husband will embrace reading it as well, because I think itâs the ticket to a great lasting marriage.
MomTo5 –
A must for all couples!
I am so thankful I took the time to read this book as it truly helped me understand my role in our marriage much better than I ever realized. No one ever talked to me about marriage or what it could be like before I got married. I am so thankful for this book.
Rebecca Kaahar –
Marriage Advice
This book has a lot of information on relationship and marriage tips, how to make your marriage better in various 6 pillars of intimacy. I encourage you all to go read it and be a better person in your relationships.
Aly F –
Great Message for Married Couples
This is a great book and an easy read. The idea that the stability of your marriage relationship is a direct reflection of the strength of six “pillars” is interesting. Cracks in these pillars develop over time if intentionality isn’t practiced in the marriage. The areas of intimacy discussed in this book are emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual. I think when most people hear the word “intimacy” they naturally think of sex. However, the author debunks that thought by expanding the intimacy definition to include five other non-sexual intimate areas of your relationship.As I said, the book is a good quick read with a wonderful message. The hard part is practicing what it teaches to strengthen and build those pillars!
Amazon Customer –
must have book for couples
the information in the book has helped me and my wife
Heather M. Claus –
An interesting take from a Christian perspective.
I picked up this book and didn’t realize it was Christian centered. I probably wouldn’t have if I had known because I’ve found that a lot of authors make the religion the meat of the writing, versus whatever the topic might be. I read it anyway, and enjoyed how many important topics were handled.They focus on how spouses might see things differently in various situations they encounter. This is a HUGE key for me, and something I’m always trying to explain. That you are TWO people, and that needs to be accounted for.They discuss the difference between physical intimacy and sexual intimacy, which I quite like. I don’t think I’ve seen others really tease that out as well.”I don’t want to schedule sex. I want it to be spontaneous.” Another BIG topic they touch on that is well worth paying attention to.I’m glad I picked this book up. My life and love and the words I use to discuss them are richer for it.
WyllieGirl –
Fantastically thorough!
I love that this book comes from a Christian perspective and still talks intimacy and sex. But that intimacy isnât just sex!As my adult kids begin to think about, anticipate and navigate âhappily ever afterâ I began asking myself what has made my marriage so successful. That led me to this book.I was happy to find my marriage aligned with a lot of this content but also found some gems to takeaway and implement in my own marriage.What a great resource!Outstanding book. Highly recommend.
May –
Tony and Alisa really nail the foundations for building a strong and healthy marriage, or a long-lasting and stable relationship. I quote: “Change starts with you, but it takes two to completely transform a marriage.”In a culture where things and people are more often replaced when broken, rather then mended, this book is an eye opener for couples willing to put in the effort and make it work. I also appreciate the way the authors share examples from their own marriage. Very highly recommended.
Jeremy –
It’s easy to let things drift in a relationship. It’s easy to go through the motions. This book â as the title suggests â helps you become intentional about your marriage (or committed relationship) by focusing on six key relationship pillars: emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, financial intimacy, spiritual intimacy, recreational intimacy and sexual intimacy. The book is full of practical tips, is written in an easy-to-read, clear style, and is bound to help struggling relationships and improve ones that are already going strong.
wjms –
This book poses a series of questions, it encourages self-reflection and also reflection with your partner. The six pillars concept works, and works well. I admit, I was sceptical about a couple of the pillars, but having read the book and given it some time to sink in, they are very valid ones. I liked the sections âWhat can I do?â And âWhat can we do?â Which were presented for each of the pillars. I am sure that almost every couple will have a few cracks in their pillars; this book explains how to identify these, fix them, and strengthen them. Well-written and well worth the 5/5 stars I have given it. Recommended reading for every (married) couple.
Frederick Knight –
This is truly one of best and most value books Iâve read this year. Having been married for 10years itâs true to say that my wife and I had lost our âsparkâ. This book has allowed us to work on ourselves and on those things that really matter. We would definitely recommend this book!
Bohdi1981 –
I found this book incredibly reflective and insightful. That’s to the author’s for sharing their experiences so we can all learn from them. I plan on putting all six pillars to good use in my own marriage!